Love at first sight

" Love at first sight ? "

Do you actually believe in that ? I won't voice out my opinion here, but I'll just keep on writing since I have the mood to write. What does actually love at first sight means ? You don't love someone the moment you see him/her. Because there is nothing like this in reality.

Perhaps, love at first sight should be rephrased into hooked at first sight? You look at the person " Look at him/her! Charming smiles, and not overly dressed up! " That is the moment you are deciding to stalk and do all the spies jobs. Actually it is not love at first sight because you cannot love a person by just looking at the appearance, attitudes, background and etc. Handsome, pretty, rich, poor,healthy, sick? Maybe it does matter to you in the first place, but when you step further down, you'll find it, it is nothing at all because you love him/her. You won't even care about the appearance anymore. Don't you ?

You develop the first "hooked" feeling when you looked at him/her and I can say, you hooked because of the appearance for the very first time. This is reality. You don't really have a good impression on a bad looking guy/girl, right ? If I ask you to choose a fatty and a cute moderate looking girl,guy, of course, normally people choose the later. This is reality.

When you develop the "hooked" feeling, it is not love at first sight at all. You will go to the liking phase. Like the way he/she acts, all the small things that no one ever noticed but you did, feeling happy when you see him/her and so on. The "hooked" feelings started to dissipated and proceed to "like". Liking everything even though it is ugly or embarassing stuff. For instance, tripped of at the ground and you find it cute.

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Moving on, after liking him/her and the feelings are getting stronger day by day ( I don't know how it gets stronger, have to ask God ). Something like, the more you practise doing something, it gets easier and turn into habits day by day. You can feel the feelings getting tough and hard to even forget about it. Next, perhaps, it will start to develop into "love". Love, meaning you want MORE. MORE of him/her. Not money or sex ( some do ), but him/her. Just merely him/her, more like time. Spending time with him/her without doing anything, maybe just talks, cuddles, teasing each other.

I'm not sure what is the MORE. Perhaps, being in relationship with him/her. Or wanting him/her to have the same feelings like what you had on him/her.

Well, the conclusion is, there is no such thing as "love at first sight". Let me tell you something,

Okay, someone taught me this. HAHAHA. and seriously do I make any sense ?

Before I end this post, let me show you some quotes :

“I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love.”  -Marilyn Monroe

“I am nothing special, of this I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts and I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten, but I've loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough..”  - Nicholas Sparks

No matter how you come to love somebody, cherish every moments that you are with him/her because you never know what is going to happen in the next hours. Life is short, don't waste it! Do something to paint your life with all sorts of colours~


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